moonlite
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posted on 08-02-2005 at 03:58 |
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Too Far?
I am will be a senior in high school this fall but was able to attend the summer session in college. I am not especially attractive. I had never dated until this summer and I met a guy who seemed to care for me. on the second date we kissed and he touched me a bit ( above waist) we were lying on a sofa and he had my skirt up and was rubbing his member between my thighs and against my panties. I was so excited but scared i was pulling up onthe waist band of my panties with both hands so as to preventhim entering throuhh the leg opening. He seemed to respect me and acted like he cared for me. I now feel a bit guilty like that I am too experienced to consider myself a virgin. I keep feeling like I would like to do this again. Any girls have similar experiences? Please no boys answer me. Did you feel bad?
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The Virgin Nurse
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posted on 08-02-2005 at 13:32 |
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yeah
I did feel bad after something similar to your situation..but I prayed for forgivness and I promised myself I WILL NEVER LET a guy get that close to me til I'm married. My ex bf were making out in the backseat of my sister's car..(she wasn't in it) while we were at it he begin rub his hand between my legs. He was try to unzip my pants but that's when my sister was heading towards the car..(plus I hit him for doing that)(I'm still a virgin) I
eventually got over it and broke up with him. It's okay
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moonlite
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posted on 08-02-2005 at 19:42 |
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too far
you make me feel better but what scares me I am afraid that I enjoyed this experience, You sound like a Christian Girl. I know you are a bit younger than I am but I appreciate your understanding.
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moonlite
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posted on 08-03-2005 at 11:21 |
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Too Far safety
I was telling a friend about this forum and she told me that she had heard on another forum called SCARLETEEN that a girl can get pregnabt although she is a virgin and has her underwear on and the boy stays outside her pants if it was to soak through. Dhe went on to tell that she met at church camp , of all places>would cut a piece of Saran wrap and olace it between her body and underwear as a shield then they would do their thing between her thighs in safety. Seems that there would be safety but yet feelings of guilt. anyway she was able to keep her boyfriend
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The Virgin Nurse
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posted on 08-03-2005 at 21:31 |
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..Whoo..
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I was telling a friend about this forum and she told me that she had heard on another forum called SCARLETEEN that a girl can get pregnabt although she is a virgin and has her underwear on and the boy stays outside her pants if it was to soak through. Dhe went on to tell that she met at church camp , of all places>would cut a piece of Saran wrap and olace it between her body and underwear as a shield then they would do their thing between her thighs in safety. Seems that there would be safety but yet feelings of guilt. anyway she was able to keep her boyfriend
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-17-2006 at 20:33 |
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"we were lying on a sofa and he had my skirt up and was rubbing his member between my thighs and against my panties."
Yes, that's too far.
You said you were a Christian.
Christians are to abstain from ANY sexual touching.
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pussiegalore
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posted on 03-22-2006 at 09:37 |
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ghghgg
not tryna sound rude and u can believe whateva u want but i cant believe u just said u were afraid that u enjoyed that experience. afraid of what? afraid of thinkin god will look down on u or see u as less of a person just cos u felt pleasure from being aroused? (a feelin that god gave us anyway by the way!) its sad to see ppl limiting themselves from feelin pleasure just cos they think god wont approve. feeling aroused is not a dirty thing and its a natural emotion, just like feeling hungry or feeling happy is. so u shouldnt feel ashamed of feeling aroused k!
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-22-2006 at 18:24 |
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life
pussiegalore
I understand you; and I know exactly what you mean. But, there are values that makes you perfect human or at least good man/woman. You have internal fight as to broke it or preserve for someone who really deserves it, someone whom you're going to live whole your life.. Living your life according to Holy Book, which gives the glad tidings that if spent within the bounds of moderation, youth is an agreeable Divine bounty and sweet, powerful means to good works, which yields the result of shining, immortal youth in the hereafter.
Since the reality is this, and since the bounds of the licit are sufficient for enjoyment, and since an hour of unlawful pleasure leads sometimes to a punishment of one, or ten, years’ imprisonment; surely it is absolutely necessary to spend the sweet bounty of youth chastely, on the straight path, as thanks for the bounty.
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